Eliminate Toxic Associations

Let’s try something…  Take a look at who is involved in your life.  Do they help make your life easier or more complicated?  If you hesitated or have to make an excuse for these people or things in your life, then it’s time to clean house. 

Most and all of us have dreams and aspirations in life.  The journey itself is taxing but to keep your life cluttered with things that don’t help you get there will prolong the success. 
 
Just to let you all know, these people or things are not all bad, but they’re inconvenient for you and your life.; meaning, they’re not for everyone. Some things and people are good for certain individuals. Surrounding yourself with people who don’t truly love, support and believe in you will have you thinking that you’re not good enough or not thinking straight.  You should never second-guess yourself when you’re doing what YOU want to do if that will get you to the next step in your journey.  When you start to trim the fat of things that don’t make sense and make you tired and unhappy, you start to find yourself and purpose again.  You start to think more clearly than you did before and even find that extra boost of energy that you didn’t know you had.
 
There may be times where you feel like you are doing everything right but bad things keep happening to you!  9 times out of 10, associating yourself with fools will present you with the same exact consequences that come with being one.  A part of your being is whom you associate yourself with and if you constantly feed off of their energy, make sure it’s positive, purposeful and convicting.

People who love you don’t tell you what you want to hear, but what you need to hear.  They may not know it all, but if they have a good heart., take something from the advice and apply it somewhere in your life.  Advice from great individuals never goes to waste, just don’t waste your time with nonsense.

Jessica McArthur
Jl.mcarthur93@gmail.com